And this truth hit me like a punch to the neck.
Eve NEVER DISTURBED HERSELF FOR REAL,
She was created to be presented to Him.
The First Word Adam declared when he saw her
was “Finally”! Finally, here she is- the One I have been longing for
Here she is- the FLESH OF MY FLESH, THE BONE OF MY BONE
The One I call “Woman”
Other animals- cattle, birds and with wild animals could not make a match
with the man God created called Adam.
If you noticed well, Adam was searching and God was searching also
For the One who could be “The Suitable Companion”, an helper and all in all.
As I read, I realized this was the first love story from the Bible
A love story made by God which was so strong and unbreakable
Although they went through a lot together & the both of them were blamable
But they still remained INSEPARABLE.
And the other thing I got from this is that
The reason why they stayed together was because they were meant for each other
Adam had a total respect for her
Any man would have left a woman who led him to sin but He stayed because He cherished her.
He cherished her because He knew her worth and how much He needed his companion and Helper.
Ladies, The issue here is that
God created you to be presentable to that man.
When the right time comes, you will be Presented to Him
So don’t get so fussy about finding Him
Cos you are not meant to be searching for the Man in the first place
YOU ARE A PRODUCT OF A PARTICULAR MAN’S SEARCH
and A PRODUCT OF GOD’S CHOICE FOR A PARTICULAR MAN.
What you are to do now
is to make yourself a woman enough for that man. How?
By killing your flesh and submitting yourself daily to be led by God’s Spirit
and by eating the Word of God continuously.
It doesn’t matter if you feel lonely at times!
Seek Jesus and the KINGDOM OF GOD at all times.
Keep FOCUSING ON THE BALL
till you ACHIEVE THAT GOAL!
The Ball is JESUS
and He is the One who deserves all your FOCUS.
Eve didn’t have to do anything to please Adam to win His heart.
You don’t have to put on make- up, wear skimpy clothes,
sleep with a man, fix all kind of weave- on to win and keep your Man’s Heart.
A woman of the Lord lives to only please God,
Guarding her heart and keeping pure her body which is the temple of the Lord.
A woman of God is different from the Women of the World.
She can be differentiated from the Likes of Delilah but can be compared to Deborah
A woman of the Lord doesn’t only catch His attention, she steals and KEEPS HIS HEART too.
Adam was searching continuously until He found Eve.
He was looking for His missing piece then He got His Missing Rib.
Patiently wait till you are presented to Him because that is the way you will truly complete Him and leave His wandering heart peaceful!
Ladies, lets fix our eyes on that which is necessary and stop focusing on what cannot fulfill us. Your No 1 worry or the No 1 thing on your To- get list should not be “Getting a Boyfriend or getting a Husband”. Put your spiritual life before anything else. Put God above everything and put your worries in God’s Hands. Open your Bible and read for yourself what Genesis 2 says. God himself was the One who was worrying about Adam’s lonely state. Genesis 2: 18 says that God said, “It is not good for the Man to be alone; I will make Him a helper, a companion. Put your worries to God in prayer and abandon it there, God will you present you to that Blessed man of God in His timing. You can go any length to please a Man but how much length can you go to Please God? God created you to please with Him with your Faith so leave to please God not Man! When you do not chase after your Adam he will respect you cherish you and stick with you through the thick and thin times because He wouldn’t want to lose you. Your Love affair will truly be like the one described in 1 Corinthians 13. His love for you and your Love will never ever die!
For the men, know your Eve when she is presented before you! Don’t go for less because your criteria is of a Worldly source not a Godly One!