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Marry Her Ike Amadi

#MarryHer: Why a young man should not date more than one girl at the same time

I recently listened to a teaching on relationships by the good Apostle Suleiman. My friend Icha had recommended him to me, and I must say that after listening to him, I really liked his presentation: raw and unembellished; mixing deep spirituality with plenty practical illustrations.

One of the points he made in the teaching, 20 mistakes boys make, was that they dated more than one lady at a time. I think he refers to entering a purposeful relationship with more than one lady at a time, certainly with the intention of marrying one of them.


According to him (and these are solely his views), certain spirits are usually against a lady getting married. Thus, when you approach a lady for marriage, those spirits begin to attack you. Now imagine that you’ve raised the hopes of 5 ladies. What that means is that five different sets of spirits will be after you. Woe unto you if you’re weak in spirit.

Long and short, date (and I hate to use this word by the way) one lady at a time. Be focused and unless that one ends, do not start another.

Solely for your own good.

Do you agree with him?

Ike Amadi

Ike Amadi

Author of the book Do Something! I am an advocate of all things #fresh. I want to see you become a #dosomethingperson.