you are married to your own husband.
That’s the man God made for you.
He is not your pastor’s wife’s husband.
He is not your friend’s husband. He is not your mother’s husband.
He is not your sister’s husband. He is not your cousin’s husband.
He is not your brother.
He is not your ex boyfriend.
He is your husband. You meet his specifications.
Stop comparing him to your pastor or any other man.
Truth is: your husband loves you more than every other man, including your pastor or your first love or ex lover. If not , those men would’ve married you!
Stop respecting any other man more than him.
You will solve up to a quarter of the issues you face in marriage if you understand that the man you married is different from every other man that seem to glitter in your eyes. He is unique.
And when you recognize his uniqueness, then you will appreciate your unique virtues for being the great woman that understands this mystery called “your husband”!