I choose celibacy, what’s your business with that? You choose to fornicate , did I ever ask you why?
I am single, you ask why, you are in a relationship, and you want to know why am single? what’s your problem with me being single?
Let me now answer your question.
Choosing celibacy, has been the best choice.
Celibacy does not mean, I don’t desire sex or am not interested in the opposite sex.
It simply means I decided to keep my body holy in all manner, i.e in my thoughts, what I watch and what I think about.
Celibacy has kept me from heartbreaks and regret. I don’t have to regret having had sex with you when you eventually leave.
Celibacy has helped kick out unserious men out of my Life. I have a principle on how I pick my male friends, if you don’t meet up, I immediately zero you out in my mind. The principle is very simple. It aids me avoiding purposeless people has friends.
Sex was created to meet our needs sexually, it was created to keep a bond and unity between the married not the singles.
Allowing a guy have sex with you or vice versa does not guarantee that he/she will marry you.
Having sex when you are not married is not relationship, it’s called fornication.
Sex is not a proof that i love you. Sex is not a sign that he would stay. Sex should not be a medium of reward for his gifts. Keep your gifts abeg. Who the gifts don epp?
You know being single, helps you find joy in yourself, helps you know your worth and value, helps you know yourself.
It might not be easy for those that are just coming out of a broken relationship, but you I know you will later find yourself.
Ladies please let’s wake up. Men should not be your source of Joy. Find that joy within.
I know we all want that one person that will always be there for us physically, but in the bid of finding that person, please don’t loose focus of who you are.
You are who you are, don’t let anyone deceive you.
by Hannah Oladipo