I recently listened to a teaching on relationships by the good Apostle Suleiman. My friend Icha had recommended him to me, and I must say that after listening to him, I really liked his presentation: raw and unembellished; mixing deep spirituality with plenty practical illustrations.
One of the points he made in the teaching, 20 mistakes boys make, was that they dated more than one lady at a time. I think he refers to entering a purposeful relationship with more than one lady at a time, certainly with the intention of marrying one of them.
According to him (and these are solely his views), certain spirits are usually against a lady getting married. Thus, when you approach a lady for marriage, those spirits begin to attack you. Now imagine that you’ve raised the hopes of 5 ladies. What that means is that five different sets of spirits will be after you. Woe unto you if you’re weak in spirit.
Long and short, date (and I hate to use this word by the way) one lady at a time. Be focused and unless that one ends, do not start another.
Solely for your own good.
Do you agree with him?